23
May
The Mastery of Love
Don’t Take Anything PersonallyWhenever someone says something about you, especially when it’s not for the best of you, try your hardest not to feel inflicted. It is better not to feel harmed or else it will affect you more. Everyone has a right to say what they want, however some just do not mind if they hurt people with their words. Being immune to the words and opinion of others saves you from being hurt. You would not have the perils of being hurt by slashing words. You will feel secured and strong since you are confident enough on whom you really are. However, try not to be torn off by them, build courage upon yourself. It is always the best armor.
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Nothing others do or say is because of me. It’s based on their own mitote - their own dream. When we truly understand that everyone functions within their own dream [mitote]…their own reality and perceptions…we can better not take personally anything.
If I take personally anything one does or says, I am adopting their perceptions. [Yes, whether I like it or not.] However, healing from this does not mean I will not be hurt.
To even think one is TRYING to harm me, hurts me…especially if I trust people.
Don Miguel Ruiz’ Four Agreements are the catalyst for my re-evalutaing any agreement that may no longer work.
I found you through Entrecard.
Thanks.
Namaste,
Samsara
May 23rd, 2008 at 3:55 pm