They say that finding the right person for you is a difficult and long task. Maybe or maybe not. Personally, I do not consider it as a task. More likely a natural blow of fate. Meaning, he will be there and see me when the right time has come. It will then be up to me to be sensitive enough to feel him around, else, he might just go and pass me by. But then, there will always be “…and I thought” kinda thingie. It is fine, that do not necessarily mean he is gone for good. Who knows he might be there again to bump in the subway or brush elbows while crossing the street. Either way, in due time, both will get to notice it…. a little sooner than expected is always sweet. 

On the other hand, most would say “playing the waiting game” is cliche. The new era has to have intervention to make things work. As I say, ‘the bridge to your fate is a phone call’.. friends find that humorous too! Anyhow, it can be true. The technology today has been a great help in connecting people. Families and friends can stay in touch and connected anytime of the day or night, even when miles apart. So, why not use it to find someone you can ‘bridge’ your fate with? Besides, we all make our own destiny, don’t we?

People all over the globe have been busy all the time and are caught up with the fast paced lifestyle of work and career, that none much had the time to think about their personal lives. It’s work..work…work! Long daytime (some nights) hours are spent working; time flies quickly. But on coming home to an empty house, the loneliness hits. Day after day, waking up alone in the bed, breakfast would feel better in the coffee shop than in the home kitchen. And at trying to sleep well alone in the big bed everynight. The giant pillow is the only company till sleep kicks in. It’s a sad life after all. Guess career and success is not all to live for. 

However, it is not yet a dead end. Busy people can still have a side-life along with a boosting career. How? Online. Some would say that is silly, how can one be so sure that it is all but fraud? Of course you cannot all the way believe that everything is 101% true; but that does not mean it is also 101% faux, is it? Best way is to know the person behind the line. Communication and listening will do a great deal of knowing each other better (and that works on both real and reel deal). Talk as often as possible. Discover each other’s likes and dislikes, be nice friends and things will come to place sooner or later. Touch each others lives in the long run, and before you know it, life will be in full color. A smile will be on your face as you wake up, and a rush of excitement will be felt as you come home in anticipation of talking to him/her again. It may not be a permanent thing, but it still touches the inner self and brings joy and life (and love too) to your used to be a silent life. A glimpse of his/her face as you open your inbox will send a smile to you. Who knows, maybe a virtual rose is waiting for you too, which only means you are not alone… not anymore.

I’ve seen it happened, and it worked for them. Maybe with you too. It’s worth a try, nothing to lose.

~Shaz