Meeting people are always good. How you meet them or where you meet them is not too important as long as you both clicked. Clicking may not happen instantly to some but to many, it does. The spark as how they call it. The electricity that revvs you up when he gets a slight brush of skin to yours. It felt great. But for how long does this really last? A week? A month? A year? Would it end as soon as it clicked, or will it stay as long as you click? Pretty hard to gauge. I guess that is because people are not the same. Some can take it longer and stretch the spark as long as they can, mutually of course, while others just cannot.

I believe it takes more than just a spark to make a relationship work. It takes chemistry, timing, mindset, and a whole lotta luck! Some will think it absurd. Luck for Love? Nasty! Not really. It’s just that, love and relationship relies on two people coming together to be one. And it will take more than just love itself to be loved by the other. It will take more than the heart; it will need the mind; the emotions and the reasoning combined together with a twist of good fate… that will somehow get good results and relationship can start from there.

A few times in our lives we meet someone that we thought, he was it. She was it! It’s a great feeling. But only until it lasts. Until you have finally unfolded what really is beneath the surface, and if it surprises you too much, it can be hard to bear. Might as well get all things in the open. Not in one go, slowly but consistent so that eventually, you will know how to embrace each other fully.

Slow is good. Little baby steps at a time. It helps heal and it helps open your thoughts for you to see what really is in front of you. Then you can finally tell, the chemistry worked after all.

~Shaz

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Whether you’ve been through your worst time or is yet to come, always remember that life can only be summed up to 2 words…. shit-happens. ~paige
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I know sometimes I’m hard to understand, hard to be with, and hard to predict… but I want to say thanks, coz though it’s hard loving me, still you did. ~paige
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I feel blessed to become yours, you’re priceless and a rare find… your personality is one of a kind. So don’t ask me what your worth is… coz you’re too much from what I asked for. ~paige
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It’s the rule of life that
everything you have always wanted
comes the very second you stop looking
for it. -Sex & the City
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There is no better time than right now to be happy.
Happiness is a journey, not a destination.
So work like you don’t need money.
Love like you’ve never been hurt, and,
Dance like no one’s watching.
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To love the rose, you must respect it’s thorns…
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Its good to have a mystery in oneself…. it adds purpose in life. To be too transparent loses its challenge… how else to tickle one’s curiosity and try to find you out if all else is at the open at once? ~paige
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“the sense that life is essentially a cheat and its conditions are those of defeat, and that the redeeming things are not `happiness and pleasure’ but the deeper satisfactions that come out of struggle.” -fs fitzgerald
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Money is hard to find. only IF you’re the lazy kind. ~paige
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Life is a journey…
live it –you get good results;
love it –you get better ones. ~paige
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Life is a journey that we tread…
to laugh, to live, and to love.”
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“We cannot have happiness as a whole,
it is earned and given piece by piece.
We find and seek, and you be strong than weak.” ~paige
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“2 hardest tests of life: The patience to wait for the right moment; and the courage to make wrong moments right…”

~Shaz

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 Adventure comes in many forms, following your heart is the greatest of all. 

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Men always wanted to be a woman’s first love, women always wanted to be a man’s last. 

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I let go not ’cause I don’t love you no more, but it’s because when you have my heart, you tend to forget my worth. ~paige 

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Love is like a work of art, where even the slightest detail is beautiful. 

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Our truest life is when we are in our dreams… awake. 

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Every moment is a chance to touch someone’s heart, so here I am keeping in touch. So you’ll remember that in this world of 6 billion people… YOU matter to me. 

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Setting someone free is the hardest thing to do; it’s not the tears that you’ve cried but it’s that tiny hope in your heart that somehow, someday, you’ll still end up together. ~paige 

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It is better to die with memories than to live with dreams alone… ~paige 

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I’d rather see you in your worst and love you with it, than love you in your best and hide the flaws within. ~paige 

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If you never get your heart broken, you’ll never learn to love…. 

If you haven’t ever had a broken heart, you have not yet experienced true love…. 

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The only people that you need in your life are those who proved that they needed you in theirs… ~paige 

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A relationship with another person is a state where you don’t feel alone. It is a state where you can be a special part of yourself, where when something goes wrong, another person cares as much as you to make things right… 

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Trust should be like the feeling of a 1yr-old baby, when you throw him in the air –he laughs, coz he knows you will catch him when he falls… 

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If people would ask me who I want to be with, I would simply say…’someone who is not strong… not strong enough to let me go.’ ~paige 

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A sense of purpose is the best driving force to live… coz when you have a reason to live, you will never have a reason to quit. 

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One of the biggest flattery is knowing that just by being your wonderful self… You make a bitch extremely insecure. Rock-on Gorgeous!  

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The only thing you may regret in this one lifetime is the risk you did not take. So, if you find that 1 important thing that makes you happy, grab it with both hands… and to hell with the consequences! ~paige 

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~Shaz

 

ARIES - The Aggressive
Outgoing. Lovable. Spontaneous. Not one to mess with. Funny.. Excellent kisser EXTREMELY adorable. Loves relationships, and family is very important to an aries. Aries are known for being generous and giving. Addictive. Loud. Always has the need to be ‘Right’. Aries will argue to prove their point for hours and hours. Aries are some of the most wonderful people in the world

TAURUS - The Tramp
Aggressive. Loves being in long relationships. Likes to give a good fight. Fight for what they want. Can be annoying at times, but for the love of attention. Extremely outgoing. Loves to help people in times of need. Good kisser. Good personality. Stubborn. A caring person. They can be self centered and if they want something they will do anything to get it. They love to sleep and can be lazy. One of a kind. Not one to mess with. Are the most attractive people on earth! 

GEMINI - The Twin
Nice. Love is one of a kind. Great listeners. Very Good at confusing people… Lover not a fighter, but will still knock you out. Geminis will not take any crap from anyone. Geminis like to tell people what they should do and get offended easily. They are great at losing things and are forgetful. Geminis can be very sarcastic and childish at times and are very nosey. Trustworthy. Always happy. VERY Loud. Talkative. Outgoing. VERY FORGIVING. Loves to make out. Has a beautiful smile. Generous. Strong. THE MOST IRRESISTIBLE. 

CANCER - The Beauty
MOST AMAZING KISSER. Very high appeal. A Cancer’s Love is one of a kind.. Very romantic.. Most caring person you will ever meet in your life. Entirely creative Person, most are artists and insane, respectfully speaking. They perfected sex and do it often. Extremely random. An Ultimate Freak. Extremely funny and is usually the life of the party. Most Cancers will take you under their wing and into their hearts where you will remain forever. Cancers make love with a passion beyond compare. Spontaneous. Not a Fighter, But will kick your ass good if it comes down to it. Someone you should hold on to! 

LEO - The Lion
Great talker. Attractive and passionate. Laid back. Usually happy but when unhappy tend to be grouchy and childish. A Leo’s problem becomes everyone’s problem. Most Leos are very predictable and tend to be monotonous. Knows how to have fun.. Is really good at almost anything. Great kisser. Very predictable. Outgoing. Down to earth. Addictive. Attractive. Loud. Loves being in long relationships. Talkative. Not one to mess with. Rare to find. Good when found. 

VIRGO - The One that Waits
Dominant in relationships. Someone loves them right now. Always wants the last word. Caring. Smart. Loud. Loyal. Easy to talk to. Everything you ever wanted. Easy to please. A pushover. Loves to gamble and take chances… Needs to have the last say in everything.. They think they know everything and usually do. Respectful to others but you will quickly lose their respect if you do something untrustworthy towards them and never regain respect. They do not forgive and never forget. The one and only. 

LIBRA - The Lame One
Nice to everyone they meet… Their love is one of a kind. Silly, funny and sweet. Have own unique appeal. Most caring person you will ever meet! However, not the kind of person you want to mess with…you might end up crying. Libras can cause as much havoc as they can prevent. Faithful friends to the end. Can hold a grudge for years. Libras are someone you want on your side. Usually great at sports and are extreme sports fanatics. Very creative. A hopeless romantic. 

SCORPIO - The Addict
EXTREMELY adorable. Loves to joke. Very Good sense of humor. Will try almost anything once. Loves to be pampered. Energetic. Predictable. GREAT kisser. Always get what they want.. Attractive. Loves being in long relationships. Talkative. Loves to party but at times to the extreme. Loves the smell and feel of money and is good at making it but just as good at spending it! Very protective over loved ones. HARD workers. Can be a good friend but if is disrespected by a friend, the friendship will end. Romantic. Caring

SAGITTARIUS - The Promiscuous One
Spontaneous. High appeal. Rare to find. Great when found.. Loves being in long relationships. So much love to give. A loner most of the time. Loses patience easily and will not take crap. If in a bad mood stay FAR away. Gets offended easily and remembers the offense forever. Loves deeply but at times will not show it, feels it is a sign of weakness. Has many fears but will not show it. VERY private person. Defends loved ones with all their abilities. Can be childish often. Not one to mess with. Very pretty. Very romantic. Nice to everyone they meet. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, fun and sweet. Have own unique appeal. Most caring person you will ever meet! Amazing in bed..!!! Not the kind of person you want to mess with- you might end up crying. 

CAPRICORN - The Passionate Lover
Love to bust. Nice… Sassy. Intelligent. Sexy. Grouchy at times and annoying to some. Lazy and love to take it easy. But when they find a job or something they like to do they put their all into it. Proud, understanding and sweet.
Irresistible. Loves being in long relationships. Great talker. Always gets what he or she wants. Cool. Loves to win against other signs especially Gemini’s in sports. Likes to cook but would rather go out to eat at good restaurants.
Extremely fun. Loves to joke. Smart. 

AQUARIUS - Does It In The Water
Trustworthy. Attractive. Great kisser. One of a kind, loves being in long-term relationships. Can be clumsy at times but tries hard. Will take on any project. Proud of themselves in whatever they do. Messy and unorganized. Procrastinators. Great lovers, when they’re not sleeping. Extreme thinkers. Loves their pets usually more than their family. Can be VERY irritating to others when they try to explain or tell a story. Unpredictable. Will exceed your expectations. Not a Fighter but will Knock your lights out

PISCES - The Partner for Life
Caring and kind. Smart. Likes to be the center of attention. Very organized. High appeal to opposite sex. Likes to have the last word. Good to find, but hard to keep. Passionate, wonderful lovers. Fun to be around. Too trusting at times and gets hurt easily. VERY caring. They always try to do the right thing and sometimes gets the short end of the stick. They sometimes get used by others and get hurt because of their trusting. Extremely weird but in a good way. Good sense of humor!!! Thoughtful. Loves to joke. Very popular. Silly, fun and sweet. Good friend to other but needs to be choosy on who they allow their friends to be.
 

~Shaz

Every relationship usually starts with friendship. We also believe that it is the best way to have a good foundation in a relationship. In general, yes. But it does not imply that it has to happen to everyone. One way or another, it’s not. You both enjoyed each other’s company, crack jokes… tell stories… laugh about things. It’s fun, pure fun. But sometimes having fun with someone doesn’t always mean it a sign of a romantic relationship coming. In most cases, friends are just good as friends. They are not always ‘partner’ material. But they are good friends, too good that we usually fall for them. That is a normal yet hurtful thing to happen to anyone… man or woman. However, it adds a slice to our life that makes us a better and wiser person. It gives us a memorable and fruitful experience that in the future we will be able to face the same situation with a new found strength, a new courage, a new you. It is very common how some people fall for their friends. I guess in some phase of our lives, it has happened to us. Some feels alright with it, some fears feeling it. Why? Because in a way, we think that IF our friend finds out he may not like it. Hence, he will start to ignore you. He will find reasons not to go with you when you tell him you got 2 front row tickets for the playoffs; Or if you feel like spending your free time at the park or simple just strolling around. He may start to have lots of excuses to miss your daily morning jogs. Fear is a natural reaction to this kind of dilemma. But we have to face them. However we think on how to deal with it, we have to. We can try some tricks to know how your friend will react to this issue. What you can do is try to ‘feel’ him… as you already know him too well you will be able to gauge how he feels for you at least. If you think you are brave enough to face the reality if ever he cannot reciprocate the feelings you have for him, you can tell it to him. Tell it to him in a way that you are not exactly asking something in return. Start from there. If he responds positively, then maybe… just maybe it’s worth a shot of letting him know exactly how you feel for him.

But anyhow, you just have to be ready and expect the unexpected. It can be hard to accept if one day you wake up and you face the day of solitude ‘cause your best-bud has drifted away. Thing is, you have been honest, vocal, and true to yourself and him. And that you have been real… that you have been You.

~Shaz