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Many people don’t think that free online dating is a good way to meet people. For anyone who is used to using online meeting places or chat rooms though, joining a dating service online is an easy way to rev up your socialization opportunities.

Friendly Meets. Unless you have a very large circle of friends and enjoy doing things together, chances are that you find it hard to meet new people as a single adult. If your only outlet is going to a singles bar and trying to determine if Mr. Right or Ms. Perfect happens to be there the same night, then you’re missing out on lots of fun. People are social creatures and when you combine that with the increasing tendency of young adults to spend time on the internet, a free online dating service is just a logical way to increase your acquaintances. Try to find people with similar interests

Broaden your horizons. As you meet other people at a free online dating website, you will find yourself learning new things, developing new interests and perhaps even changing your viewpoint about some long held beliefs. Or, you may be the one challenging other people’s beliefs and at the same time be required to dig deep in order to support your own viewpoints. In the process you will undoubtedly find that you grow and change and make yourself open to a larger group of friends.

Try it, it can be quite a fruitful experience!

~Shaz

It has been a busy week lately and I take it on a positive note. I like myself being occupied and keeping my nose close busy most times than just pass the time away bumming. I always make it a point to be productive of my time. However, that does not mean having a time out sometimes to relax and unwind is not in my mind. Of course, we all need to chill too. Recharge our batteries and have fun once in a while. So I do.

While I spend some time with friends chilling a bit on a weekend, I noticed small things that may have (or not) something to do with flames. And I mean attraction for that matter. Would it be possible that two people that ‘clicks’ in the eyes of those who see, could not see the ‘spark’ that they ignite on their own? Together they are close to being perfect. Fun, laughter, care, concern… these are just a few aspects that they seem to display when together. And people can see., why can’t they? Being non-chalant, like no malice just platonic? Or just too busy to notice that cos both are having fun together? Or it just happened that being too close for comfort its hard to admit what really is goin on. True that maybe.

So, just leave it be. Maybe it’s that reality bites hard sometimes that we tend to just leave things be. Go and enjoy what is happening when it happens and have fun at the moment. With that, nothing is assumed, nothing is taken or left… merely taking pleasure in the ‘now’. Though as expected (and naturally… humanly normal) sometimes we get a bit carried away. We confuse our feelings with the truth. Wishing it is real, and hoping words can be spoken in time, if not soon. But then it’s time to wake up when the flames die, leaving just a tiny ember enough to spark again till the next meet. The anticipation kicks inspiration, but can hardly wait. At least leaves traces of smiles with thoughts of future encounters.

~Shaz

A friend called me and he was in the state of venting. I sit there and listened as he tells his story about his recent break up…  or was it a breather or so how he calls it. He is a laid back kinda guy who enjoys the best things in life. Living his life to the fullest and having his so-called fun. A typical normal bachelor. Nothing so surprising. Until today. As I listen to his moment, I figure… are all men like him are like this for real? Tough nuts on the outside, but a soft cookie deep inside. It turns out that his ‘steady’ girl-friend has dropped the bomb. She is leaving him. After the many times of cool-offs and breathers that they have been to, which he would usually initiate, for the first time in many years of their being a couple, this time it was her. And it seems, he really got hurt.

I was tempted to say ‘it finally hits you!’ but rather shut my tacky lips for he is a dear friend and this is his moment. I should give him the benefit of the doubt (I would maybe save that line for later). Listening to him, I can feel a genuine hurt. Somehow it came to me, was there a one that got away from me… or had I been someone’s who got away from him? Maybe, maybe not. However it is, what is more important is that we come to our senses at one point in our lives to realize the importance of another and how to carry a relationship with  utmost care. Many of us take this so lightly just because we know they will surely be there when we come home everyday. Be on our sides on our waking times. But has it occurred to you that maybe they might not be there again one morning?  Then what happens? Time for your world to crumble?

Taking the littlest things for granted are sometimes the biggest mistake one would ever make. Soon enough, you are just left with hopes that maybe, just maybe… she would just come back.

~Shaz

Here’s a sweet truth: “someday someone will walk into your life and will make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else…”

Most of us have that line crossed our minds at least once. The thought of ‘what ifs’ are always there. The endless questions, the non-stop-mind-boggling-wondering for concrete answers to that one question. Maybe it is true, or perhaps it is a reality. Definitely a question that has answers only within ourselves. Meeting the man/woman of your dreams could be taboo, but don’t we all wished for that after all? Who would not? Everyone wants to have that special someone whom we can call mine to ‘love’. It’s that very powerful word that can affect everything. And too powerful to make or break you too. But know it or not, it is bound to find you at the right moment in the most unexpected time at the most unreal place. A true make it or break it moments will be there for you to take. A risk that may give you tears along the way, but makes you stronger and fighting. And when it ‘makes’ you, it is all worth it. And from then on every end of the day, you would smile and say… ‘happy you found me.’

So what if… J

~Shaz

Lucky. It’s one definition of someone who have actually found the bestfriend a person can hope for. Someone who is there not only to spend happy times with us, but more on our downest times. It is very rare for people to find a friend who is almost a brother or a sister to us, moreso is like us.

However, when you get to find one, you stick to them as they stick to you too. love them as they love you back. cherish the moments of happiness and togetherness, for you never know how long it shall last. But then, why do friends sometimes go beyond just the platonic feeling? How come the feeling grows more and more till you are sucked into the emotional boundaries and find yourself and there is no escape… or maybe you do not want to escape. The feeling gives you new life, new level of happiness, and new hope. A hope that somehow someday, the feeling will bloom and will bend it’s way to both hearts. It is so nice to think, so nice to dream that who knows maybe oneday, in the same plane of this same lifetime, you get to feel the happiness permanently.

~Shaz